WHY EMOTIONS WILL LEAD YOU ASTRAY

DEAR WOMAN,

some time ago, I posted something that read "when emotions jets out, reality sets in"
the bad thing about emotions is that it doesn't give you any form of warning before it leaves you and truly, I think it is time we started asking ourselves very critical questions in our relationships. what is very disturbing is that as women we are very quick to replace common sense with emotions especially in relationships so much that we are blinded to the warning signs.
we should learn to sit down, set emotions apart and ask very important questions like, do I want to be with him/ her, is he lazy and doesn't want to do anything for himself, what drives him, how does he spend money, what is his relationship with God, how does he treat his mother and sister, does he respect me, will I be ok if my son sees him as a role model, is he worth emulating, does he love me, do I trust him, etc

the bitter truth about emotions is that it leaves you when you are married and at that time, you are left with the biggest mistake of your life, you are left with the person's bad habit, reckless spending. zero zeal to worship God, irresponsible ways, you are left with the fact that you will one day ask your son not to be like his father, you are left confused and asking yourself how you got roped into this mess.

people seem to think that therapists are magicians who can turn people's lives around but unfortunately, some people have built such thick walls against therapy that only their will to change will make them change. I hear people say things like, "the arrival of a child makes a man responsible" but truly, only a man that is willing to be responsible will be responsible. do not put yourself in a situation you will most likely live to regret.

as much as it is important for a woman to be with a man who loves her more, it is also very necessary that she loves in return because marrying a man you do not love will not only be punishment for you but also your partner. I know that sometimes we get ready scared to ask ourselves these questions because we are afraid of the answer we will get, nevertheless, these questions must be asked and answered truthfully.https://youtu.be/gUSSpd0NnMM