Dear Woman

DEAR WOMAN, some time ago, I posted something that read "when emotions jets out, reality sets in" the bad thing about emotions is that it doesn't give you any form of warning before it leaves you and truly, I think it is time we started asking ourselves very critical questions in our relationships. what is very disturbing is that as women we are very quick to replace common sense with emotions especially in relationships so much that we are blinded to the warning signs. we should learn to sit down, set emotions apart and ask very important questions like, do I want to be with him/ her, is he lazy and doesn't want to do anything for himself, what drives him, how does he spend money, what is his relationship with God, how does he treat his mother and sister, does he respect me, will I be ok if my son sees him as a role model, is he worth emulating, does he love me, do I trust him, etc the bitter truth about emotions is that it leaves you when you are married